Monday, April 14, 2008

One Month Old

On Saturday, Nolan reached the one month mark.



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Some notes for my ever-vanishing memory: at this point, he...



*weighs 10 lbs and 12 oz



*measures 21 inches



*delights us with smiles



*cracks up his brothers by sticking his tongue out, "tooting," and looking anywhere close to their direction:-)



*loves staring at our bookcase (is he an O'Malley or what?)



*does not enjoy diaper changes or his bath (yet...trying the latter again tomorrow)



*sleep preferences in order are:



  1. Mom or Dad's arms


  2. Mom & Dad's bed, lying between them


  3. car seat


  4. swing


  5. anywhere but his crib or bassinet


That's not completely fair, because he has been doing better each day. I imagine some moms, who enjoy the shared bed, giving me that wide-eye look that says, "How can you expect him to sleep all alone at this age?"



And I imagine other moms, the ones who have their babies sleeping through the night by this age, giving the same wide-eye look, only theirs says, "It's your own fault for creating bad sleep habits."



I also think that is how the majority of the "mommy wars" happen---in our own imaginations, based on our ambivalence and guilt, which, regardless of one's choices, are always plentiful in motherhood.  We've chosen this middle road; so though I might complain about being tired, I'm relishing it too.    



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oh, and one more...



* gets even cuter with each day






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